They don’t get to give up when it’s hard, so WE WON’T QUIT!! #RC2E

I woke up yesterday morning almost unable to move. My hands were torn and blistered, the skin behind my knee was burnt and scabbed, my feet were bruised, my back aching and I had a severe headache. I actually felt like I had been run over several times by a bull.

Yet I still had this ecstatic, energetic feeling throughout my body. A feeling of satisfaction, accomplishment and extreme pride.

It would not matter what happened that day or for many days to come, I knew this feeling would not go away. I knew it, because we had achieved something that seemed impossible. We had climbed over 10,000 metres in rope climbs in under 15 hours and with a group of people that most would consider “average people”. I now know how untrue this is, it was and is the perfect example of the fact that “average people” can become “super heroes” and for the second year now we have proven that.

RC2E

They say a picture is worth 1,000 words. Well, this picture represents over 1,000 emotions. It was taken at 11pm on Saturday night literally seconds after the very last rope was climbed.

Of course there were so many people that contributed in such a big way, however, I first want to thank, from the bottom of my heart the ones in the photo. You can see it in their eyes, the pain, the struggle and the excitement.

At a point when so many others would have quit and given up, saying “it’s too hard” or “it’s not possible” (and we did say it, many times), this group of super heroes kept on going, because it represented something bigger than them. It was about letting people that struggle every day, in ways that we will never understand, know that we won’t let them do it alone, it was about stepping up and being more than just another person.

Allow me to take you on an amazing adventure that was, ROPE CLIMBS 2 EVEREST and everything that it represents.

Morning climbs PPTC

 

 

 

We started at 7am.

15 or so people still waking up, but ready to put themselves through what ended up being one of the most physically and mentally challenging thing that most of them will possibly ever do.

The level of excitement and anticipation was electric. It’s too hard to explain. People were preparing themselves for the onslaught that was about to start. From last year we knew that there would be blistered hands, torn skin, burnt thighs, skinless shins, sore feet, cramping biceps and a level of fatigue that you’ll never experience in a fun run.

As soon as we kicked off the pace was set. Brad (the most modest guy you will ever meet) set off knowing that he wasn’t able to be there all day due to prior commitments.

When you have a guy like that working his butt off, it’s very hard for everyone else to sit back and watch. So with enthusiasm the rest of us stepped up to the early morning challenge laid out in front of us (keep up with Brad). And i’ll tell you what, he made us work for it. He ended up climbing a blistering 217m in his first 2 hours (he totalled 532 for the whole day).

We knew it from the beginning that it was going to be an inspirational day, Brad (the first super hero) had already proved that.

With the goal of climbing a total of 10,000m we knew that there was a certain pace that needed to be maintained and a certain amount of people that needed to be on the ropes at any one time. We didn’t maintain that pace 🙁 Breakfast got served and the climbing stopped. We had by now been on the ropes for around 3 hours and we were sore. The worst part was, we knew that the first climb back was going to be the most painful and the hardest.

Then we were re-inspired. The second super hero of the day arose. Yes, he slept in, but when Lucas arrived you knew he was on a mission. He was going to lead the way and get us all across that line, right through to the 10,000m mark. And that’s exactly what he did. Climbing a monstrous total of 1081m throughout the day, Lucas proved that we are capable of so much more than people think.

eclipse girls Hands still climbing

 

 

 

 

It wasn’t until a bit later in the afternoon that I saw it. Something that will stay with me forever. I had the privilege of meeting and introducing everyone to Jess White from Kane’s Crusade. A super hero herself, Jess is fighting to ensure that awareness, support and the right training is in place to help people that suffer from depression and other mental illnesses.

After Jess spoke to the group (this was around the busiest time of the day between 1 and 3pm). I looked around and I saw it. Real life super heroes, EVERYWHERE!!

Regardless of how high they climbed or didn’t climb, they didn’t need to be as fit or strong as Lucas or Brad. They just needed to be willing to put someone else before them. And that’s exactly what they were doing.

Some of these super heroes had spent around 6-8 hours with us, away from their families and friends, away from all the “fun stuff” to do on a Saturday and didn’t climb a single metre. What they did do was count. They counted and added every single metre of rope climbed to make sure that the rest of us knew how far we had gone. There were people there that had never climbed a rope in their life that were giving it a go because they cared. There was 1 lady in particular who did 5 deadmen (a variation of a rope climb) to get 1 metre. SHE CLIMBED 7 metres!! That’s 35 deadmen for someone who didn’t think that they had the physical ability to contribute.

As the end of the day drew closer, the numbers started to dwindle. People had families to get back to, others were too injured to continue and one in particular was taken to hospital via ambulance after landing poorly when she jumped from the top of the rope and broke her heel bone.

This is when the realisation set in, that mental illness was not something that you could just give up on. It’s not something that people can just switch off and say “it’s been a long day, I think I’ll stop know, I want to relax”. It’s something that you have to keep fighting until you beat it. It’s a daily grind, little battle after little battle, lots of losses in the hope for 1 little win. And even though I can’t say that what we did came even close to what someone that suffers from depression goes through, we certainly hit points where we decided that it was time to give up.

It was now after 7pm (our goal time), there was maybe 20 people left, most of us severely torn, burnt, bruised and blistered and we still had over 2,000m to climb. No one wanted to say it out loud, but, it seemed impossible. There weren’t enough of us to finish that many climbs, we were too tired, to sore and “it was too hard”. Even though we were all thinking it, those words never actually came out of our mouths. Because as soon as they came close, we saw someone else stepping up to the plate and grinding on for that next little win which was a 4m climb in a 2,000m up hill battle.

450m left

Metre by metre, 1 by 1, we kept going. What made it so special, was the fact that no-one cared how long it was actually going to take. Of course we were groaning and whinging a times, but in reality we were never going to stop.

What amazes me the most, is realising why we didn’t stop. It wasn’t because we had set a goal that we wanted to achieve, it wasn’t because we wanted to brag to our friends about how awesome we were. It was because we were inspired by the unsung super heroes that couldn’t be there with us. It was at this point, when all we wanted to do was close our eyes and give up, when our entire body was aching and in pain and our mind was screaming at us, telling us ENOUGH! That we remembered the super heroes that go through this exact same battle every day of their lives.

And they so it on their own. 🙁

It’s a spectacular sight to see what we are capable of when we work together. It is inspirational to see people go through adversity on their own and come out the other side.

After the second time completing this event, what has stuck with me the most, is how important it is to have the right people in front of you, above you, next to you and beneath you to get you through the hardest of times.

If you participated in RC2E or if you volunteered or just supported from a distance, it’s super heroes like you that make human beings like us capable of achieving absolutely anything. And that definitely includes overcoming depression, anxiety and other mental illnesses.

“Don’t just surround yourself with people that lift you up. Be the person that lifts others”. – unknown

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About the Author:

Denee Lalouette
A UFT PLAYground is a place that people of all shapes, sizes and ages learn to develop their movement abilities through an infinite learning and development program. UFT PLAYgrounds have been created to re-inspire our natural ability to move, create, adapt, re-act, connect, have fun and of course PLAY. PLAYgrounds have been developed to allow people to feel and explore their own abilities by utilising a multidimensional, infinite, creative and PLAYful approach to training. We live in a world full of specialists and obsessions. At an ever increasing rate, people are specialising more and more, in their jobs, in their businesses, in their sport and in their training. The result, is a backward step in human evolution. By specialising, we limit ourselves to thinking that 1 particular way of doing things is the right way, or the only way. We promote creativity, not only in movement and training methodologies but in thinking in general. A UFT PLAYground is created to provide the general public with an opportunity to PLAY across multiple styles of training and moving, to be able to progress in the training methods that they become passionate about or that excites them and to be a part of a community that promotes more than just fitness. The “fitness” industry above all others has brought about a need to specialise in order to achieve anything, and majority of what we do for “fitness” is for an aesthetically pleasing reason. We understand that aesthetics are nice and we too love to look and feel good. However a UFT PLAYground is developed to allow people to move better than ever before across a broad range of training methodologies and ideas. Aesthetics, therefore are a result not a goal of that system. We know that “If you train to look good, you will not always enjoy what you do, but if you PLAY a lot, and do the things that you love, you will ending up looking good”. Aesthetics should be a result not a goal. For years now, we have recognised that the best movers on the planet are children. They are flexible, mobile & fit, they have better relative strength than a typical adult (and even most adolescents), they are the best creators and innovators, they learn faster, the adapt better, they interact better with other people, they are more connected to nature and most importantly, they PLAY more than anyone else. As adults, we tend to believe that because we are taller and more experienced in “life”, we are better, and then we get to an age that says we are “too old to PLAY”. As we grow taller (and in a lot of cases rounder), we experience things that inhibit our ability to move, think and not think. We allow our experiences to limit our abilities as humans, whether it be a physical injury, a story that we heard or a youtube video that we watched. We also allow our emotions to control our behaviour because of our past experiences. Maybe it was the feeling of humiliation when we tried something new, regret when we failed or heart break when it was taken away from us. Because of this, we allow our experiences to control our future instead of learning from them and creating our own . This is what UFT PLAYground’s are built on. The understanding that we as humans need to go back to the way things were before our negative experiences took over our subconscious mind and body. A UFT PLAYground gives people the ability to re-learn what they have lost, as well as develop new sets of skills that will allow them to follow any particular passion that they uncover in PLAYtime. When we PLAY, we are simply, exploring. Through exploring we become curious and through curiosity we become obsessed or passionate about a particular thing. This is why in a PLAYground we allow people to PLAY across a broad range of training systems (minimum of 3), Through this system they are able to identify 1, their current limitations and be educated on how to overcome them, and 2, identify their passions and learn to develop, grow and excel in them. UFT PLAYgrounds are also a development centre for up and coming entrepreneurs in the fitness industry. Each PLAYground founder will have been trained and will be continuously trained in UFT’s Trainer Success System. This system allows personal trainers, coaches, teachers, instructors, etc. to continue to develop in their fields of specialty (as they play they will find it) and in the philosophy of PLAYtime. They will also be trained in the business systems of UFT in order to have their own successful and profitable business. See UFT Trainer Success System for more details.

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